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Relationship Mechanism

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In this article I will share with you the perfect way to recognize the perfect spouse for you. There are different types of people in the world, and it is very important to put this into consideration before you start a serious relationship. Dating someone who shares a similar goal with you is the best emotional investment you can ever ask for. You need to understand that mechanism of relationship before committing to one, if you seek Success and a lifetime intimacy. There're some  people in life with simple goals, like owning a house, a stable income, and no social status. As long as they're feeding and clothing with no landlord palava, they are at the peak of life. While there are people who are just about popularity and recognition with zero intention to make an impact in society. Some people are more about power and position, their major aspirations in life is to be in control, like a Godfather. However there are few people in the world that aspire to make a dif...

Undeniable Mistakes Ladies Make

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So many mistakes ladies make today are caused by their inordinate desire and some confused women indoctrinating the society from their shallow and selfish perspective of life. I'm a lady and as a matter of fact, I'm a feminist. As at the time of this article I am not married. I was involved in a conversation that involves a particular lady that is yet to be married and is in her 50s. The man I got into this chat with was a secret admirer of the said lady, who eventually made his affection known to her. According to him, they were colleagues working in the same company, she was a receptionist as at that time, he was of age and ready to settle for marriage, which he founds her  suitable for a wife material. After so many days of chasing and persistency, unfortunately she turned him down with an excuse that she can't date a man in her working environment. According to him, when a man sees a woman he likes No is always not an answer, so he kept showering her with tons of gifts ...

Unwritten

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What is life without hate? What is life without a storm? What is life without fear? Every single day I wake up, to a new day, with a completely different countenance and hope. I prepare my mind for the worst, I sometimes imagine bad scenarios and what I will do to overcome them. What is life without love? What is life without a companion? Sometimes I sit to imagine having the best partner the universe can send to me, sometimes I daydream romantic scenarios. I reminisce a lot on my past, but that's not enough validation for my present ideology. I sometimes imagine being heartbroken over and over again, even though sometimes I feel my heart belongs somewhere it shouldn't be. The future is too bright to see through, curiosity of the mind is literally exhausting. The past can be reflected upon and the present can be seen with zero effort. You can never be prepared enough for the universe. The past is a lesson that prepares you for the future examination. Sometimes I ask...

Bizarre Relationship Facts

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  Sexual Relationship comes in different forms and perspectives, including individual views of the word. Sexual relationship is a form of relationship where two opposite sex or same sex have a passionate attachment  Let's discuss attachment with the opposite sex. Before any form of fuse takes place between two people, there is always a spark. What I actually mean is related to interest, like feeling of wanting to know them more, comfortable with having conversations with them, having a sexual fantasy about them e.t.c. This is an undeniable fact that you like someone. Most common sexual relationship purposes are flings. But if that spark doesn't exist, no matter how beautiful or handsome they are, you just don't find yourself giving in. One amazing fact about spark is that it always has to do with soul compatibility. There are some people you just can't make friends or have a relationship with, not because they are bad or ugly, it is just that you...

Sexual Healing

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Sexual Healing is an article about sexual life as well as impact of sexuality. Join me as I take you on adventure about sex and everything related to sex. Note: This article is rated 16. Parental guardian is required. Sexual healing has to do with sexual confidence which strongly relies on self esteem. Most men deal with tons of insecurities and I feel    masculinity sexual insecurities are more mentally consuming that feminine sexual insecurity. A lot of men run for shelter under man power for sexual confidence. If you ask me as a lady, I definitely want to organsm at least twice during any sexual activity except for a quicky, and as a lady that squirts, my sexual satisfaction will only be attained after squirting. Failure to meet up with such expectations will leave me disappointed in my man. Every man wants to be praised after every sexual activity, no doubt. Failure to do so leaves him feeling disappointed at himself indirectly reducing his sexual confidence. Today sexual ...

My Lagos Nightlife Experience

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This article is basically about my personal Lagos nightlife experience and observations. However, it includes societal misconduct, misconception and feminine values, as well as Masculinity pride and misconception about femininity. All my life has been focused on intellectual accomplishments, basically by my dad. My dad is a Late Professor in psychology who has B.S.C in two different professions. Engineering and Public relations. He studied in the US MIIT to be precise.  As a man with such intellectual value, I or anyone shouldn't expect anything less. Growing up for me was more like belonging to a lion pride, you are not expected to mingle outside the pride.  Have not really had a night life experience as an independent lady, and have been curious of what it actually looks like. However, my friend and I have been quite busy with some personal duties. We needed a break just to have fun and fly like a bird. She suggested we club, without hesitation I jumped at the idea like a pr...

Reality Of Life

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The way we see life is different from other individual's perspective of life. Our experience in life as in one way or another defines who we are and almost every individual character traits. There Is no doubt that life is a battlefield spiritually     or physically, neither will you deny it is a honey field depending on where life has placed you.   Irrespective of where life placed us, the ability to stand still matters. As humans we are like a mold of blocks that can be broken, physically,emotionally and spiritually. However the most dangerous way humans can be broken is emotionally, because your life depends on your emotional stability. Every other part of you is controlled by the emotional you. When life throws stones it hits so hard, you might even forget who you are, where you are from, like basically go blank. All that matters becomes how to survive. We try to depend on love and likenesses, seeking emotional support. Not all life challenges require financial back up...