Sexual Healing
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Sexual healing has to do with sexual confidence which strongly relies on self esteem. Most men deal with tons of insecurities and I feel masculinity sexual insecurities are more mentally consuming that feminine sexual insecurity. A lot of men run for shelter under man power for sexual confidence. If you ask me as a lady, I definitely want to organsm at least twice during any sexual activity except for a quicky, and as a lady that squirts, my sexual satisfaction will only be attained after squirting. Failure to meet up with such expectations will leave me disappointed in my man. Every man wants to be praised after every sexual activity, no doubt. Failure to do so leaves him feeling disappointed at himself indirectly reducing his sexual confidence. Today sexual confidence has become a reason to call yourself a man. It has been even before our ancestors but not as obvious as it seems in this 21 century. The fact that men have to compete with sex toys has made it more challenging and overwhelming.
Has a lady, sexual confident can easily be taken care of as most of the expectations are looking clean down there, maintaining a good healthy Virginal, smooth skin, mesmerizing body fragrance and a little sexual skills. Unlike the opposite sex, long or thick penis, sexual strength, physical fitness, mesmerizing body fragrance, some ladies don't mind a hairy cookies why some prefer a clean shaved one, before I forget sexual skills are high value ladies look for to see in a guy. Isn't that a little complicated. ...laugh…. It is a reality that is doing at least 30% damage to some men's sexual life. The major reason some men can't even last 2minutes during. 50% of the inability to last longer during sex as a man are mentally related. While the other 50% are health reasons. Am not an health expert, I however can't suggest or mention any illness that can possibly affect your sexual performance.
Mental confidence is literally the key to sexual healing. Trying to meet up with a partner's sexual expectations can affect your sexual performance as a lady or a guy. Am not saying you should be selfish. Sexual compatibility matters in every sexual adventure. Some like to be roughly handled , some like to be treated with care. And this doesn't mean they are not open to crazy sexual adventures. Sometimes we want to do some stupid sexual things, just for fun. However, having sex with someone who is literally opposite of what sexual wants are is literally a red flag. As trying to meet up with their sexual expectations can be very overwhelming that at the end you don't enjoy anything. Understanding your sexual hunger is very important. Later in this article I will share with you how to know if you are sexually compatible with someone. While embarking on a sexual adventure it is very important to have a sexual understanding, self confidence, and be open to new styles, as any form of disagreement can turn off your sexual mood. It is practically fine to get high before sex, as it is more fun and adventurous, but relying on man power, drugs or alcohol for confident is mentally wrong and ideally bad.
Sex is only pleasurable when you find comfort and security with someone. Trying too hard to be someone else can mess with your sexual health. A lot of people have been through lot of sexual misconduct, like sexual assault , sexual harassment, sexual body shaming with zero sexual orientation. All these experiences play a huge role in our sexual life. It is sad that everyone shies away from this topic. Today it has become a hidden reality. A sexually assaulted lady might struggle with attaining organsm, while a body shame guy might struggle with sexual strength. Both genders have been affected mentally in one way or the other . Your inch penis size might be someone's dream size. It is funny but a fact. Do you know medically some ladies don't enjoy sex. They feel pain during sex. Imagine such a lady with a guy with a small penis a perfect couple if you ask me. After all, no medical search has proven that having a small penis reduces a man's chances of becoming a father. Mind you, sex is not just about penetration, the ability to be able to romance is vital in every sexual adventures. Which lady doesn't enjoy being touched and sucked or which man rejects a blow job. Just having to move your waist back and forth is not enough if you ask me. Without sexual confidence all those can't be achieved.
It is said that sex cure stress, but do you know reverse can be the case? Imagine after having sex and someone looks at you and say your Virginal is loose, or your penis is too small or maybe they say you are too weak, what else can get you into immediate anxiety than that. Having a sexual understanding in a relationship comes with VIP comfort trust me. Diving into a virginal 2 times wider for your penis can only end up in critics. Making out with someone who has 3x of your sexual strength can also only end up in critics.Know your limits, be you and be confident of yourself. The fact that some last 5hours doesn't put you under an obligation to last that long. In my own sexual perspective. It not how long a sex last that matters, it's the impact of the the pleasure that matters. Did you enjoy it, will you crave for more, does it increase the affection you have for them. Sex is communication, committement and mostimes a bond. The moment you start feeling tortured by a virginal or penis, it is no longer pleasure but slavery. Sexual healing is Good sex that heals beyond stress, but heals the soul.
With all honesty there is actually no official definition of sexual compatibility, as I believe it has to do with individual diversified hunger for sexual adventures. But the moment discomfort sets in, or a party feels pulled outside their sexual boundaries and the other still feel they haven't overstepped their boundaries, I feel they are not compatible.
Compatibility is the ability to be able to exit together without conflict, which boils down to understanding and opportunity to make amends without the need to compromise one's comfort.
Here are tips on how to know you are sexually compatible with someone.
- Great sexual communications
- Similar sexual desires
- They enjoy the journey not just the destination
- You have a similar relationship with sex
- Similar definition of sex
- Similar frequency and duration of desire sex
- Similar sexual relationship orientation
How to boost your sexual confident irrespective of your sexual experience
- Communicating honestly about your sexuality with your partner is one key, as it gives them the opportunity to place neutral expectations on what to expect. While you get more confident as time passes by.
- As a man it is advisable to take focus off your penis and instead focus on arousal, as focusing on your penis can cause anxiety and alter your sexual mood. As low sexual esteem can affect erection
- Be vocal. Be verbal about what you want, like your favorite position e.t.c, be flirty with your partner, in the bedroom or over the phone.
- Cracking sexual or neutral jokes before sex or during sex is sexy, do that when you can, it boots confident and also increased your comfort around them.
- Practice soft sex, take your time once in a while, you don't have to always fight Kungfu in the bedroom, while boosting confidence it increases the bound between two people, and creating long lasting memories.
- Dress sexy, dressing sexy is one recommended way to boost sexual confidence, feeling beautiful in your body is enough to want to twerk without shyness.
Sexual healing is Good sex that heals not just stress but the soul.
Till we meet again my dear readers thanks for reading, stay safe. Please share I love you!!!! Let me know what you think in the comments section.
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