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Sexual Healing is an article about sexual life as well as impact of sexuality. Join me as I take you on adventure about sex and everything related to sex. Note: This article is rated 16. Parental guardian is required. Sexual healing has to do with sexual confidence which strongly relies on self esteem. Most men deal with tons of insecurities and I feel    masculinity sexual insecurities are more mentally consuming that feminine sexual insecurity. A lot of men run for shelter under man power for sexual confidence. If you ask me as a lady, I definitely want to organsm at least twice during any sexual activity except for a quicky, and as a lady that squirts, my sexual satisfaction will only be attained after squirting. Failure to meet up with such expectations will leave me disappointed in my man. Every man wants to be praised after every sexual activity, no doubt. Failure to do so leaves him feeling disappointed at himself indirectly reducing his sexual confidence. Today sexual ...

This article is basically about my personal Lagos nightlife experience and observations. However, it includes societal misconduct, misconception and feminine values, as well as Masculinity pride and misconception about femininity. All my life has been focused on intellectual accomplishments, basically by my dad. My dad is a Late Professor in psychology who has B.S.C in two different professions. Engineering and Public relations. He studied in the US MIIT to be precise.  As a man with such intellectual value, I or anyone shouldn't expect anything less. Growing up for me was more like belonging to a lion pride, you are not expected to mingle outside the pride.  Have not really had a night life experience as an independent lady, and have been curious of what it actually looks like. However, my friend and I have been quite busy with some personal duties. We needed a break just to have fun and fly like a bird. She suggested we club, without hesitation I jumped at the idea like a pr...

The way we see life is different from other individual's perspective of life. Our experience in life as in one way or another defines who we are and almost every individual character traits. There Is no doubt that life is a battlefield spiritually     or physically, neither will you deny it is a honey field depending on where life has placed you.   Irrespective of where life placed us, the ability to stand still matters. As humans we are like a mold of blocks that can be broken, physically,emotionally and spiritually. However the most dangerous way humans can be broken is emotionally, because your life depends on your emotional stability. Every other part of you is controlled by the emotional you. When life throws stones it hits so hard, you might even forget who you are, where you are from, like basically go blank. All that matters becomes how to survive. We try to depend on love and likenesses, seeking emotional support. Not all life challenges require financial back up...

  People are always judgmental about appearance, lifestyle and the personality others portrait. You have either being a victim or an assailant, one way to the other. One thing I love about freedom, is the Liberty you have to express who you are, this is an era where even a baby is free to express emotions.     It always overwhelming when we let society dictate who will should be. Most people who condemn certain activities as bad behavior are hypocrites.     what they see as good are most times way worse than what they label bad. As a young man coming into the society can be very overwhelming as there are high expectations by family, friends and the society it self. You can't be acceptable if you can't meet up with secondary needs as your primary needs is your personal problem. Nobody cares how you pay your bills, ofcos it not my business cause have got mine to worry about. However your appearance is literally everyone consign and can get you anywhere you desire,...

Before going into details, let me enlighten you on what feminism means. There has been a lot of confusion lately about what the word "feminism" means. Though feminists repeatedly insist that their goal is gender equality, critics continue badgering them with accusations of hating men, reinforcing the gender binary, and pursuing other things "feminism" does not mean. So (short answer: It can mean a lot of things, but what it mostly comes down to is equality and being able to make the choices that are right for you). First, in case you don't know the actual definition of feminism, it is "the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men," according to Google's dictionary. I'll admit this definition leaves something to be desired; modern feminism, for example, acknowledges more than two genders, so the movement is not just about advancing women. In addition, many have critiqued the not...

I have seen tons of articles about the girl child and I believe this stands for all Laddies as well. I ask my self why does it always have to be about the Girl child. What about the Boy child, Their a lot happening to them as well. According to Preston maithya research, Boys are assumed to be tough and able to deal with their problems in their lives on their own. They are assumed to be less vulnerable to social misdeeds such as sexual harassment, child labor, violence among many others. This is wrong. Attention need to be given to them as well. Did you know?  On daily basis the Boy child, are being Molested, Raped, maltreated and Abandoned?. My Dad once told me a story about a young boy, who reside in the same neighborhood with his parent, in the city of Lagos while he was still a bachelor, back in the 90s. He was the first son of a family of three, where both mum and dad are as busy has the clock. This boy is know to be a active, intelligent and loyal. Due to his loyal...

I hate what i see all over the social media lately about Laddies and Men who desire to enhance their complexion. There is practically nothing wrong with desiring to enhance your complexion, if you ask me. It is a decision anyone, at any point of time in their life can make, it has nothing to do with low self-esteem. If am permitted, what do your understanding of Fashion? Like your own definition of fashion. Well to my understanding, Fashion is being confident of your look, and what you wear. It doesn't matter, what anyone thinks or say about it. As long as it not against the norm of the society, you are good to go. Let stop condemning people, body shaming is wrong, it can destabilize people mental health. Multiple studies have shown the negative impact of the media on body image. Exposure to photoshopped images of unrealistic body ideals amd bodyshaming has been linked to low self-esteem, depression, and eating disorders. According to the National Association of Anorexi...