Reality Of Life

The way we see life is different from other individual's perspective of life. Our experience in life as in one way or another defines who we are and almost every individual character traits. There Is no doubt that life is a battlefield spiritually  or physically, neither will you deny it is a honey field depending on where life has placed you. 

Irrespective of where life placed us, the ability to stand still matters. As humans we are like a mold of blocks that can be broken, physically,emotionally and spiritually.

However the most dangerous way humans can be broken is emotionally, because your life depends on your emotional stability. Every other part of you is controlled by the emotional you.

When life throws stones it hits so hard, you might even forget who you are, where you are from, like basically go blank. All that matters becomes how to survive. We try to depend on love and likenesses, seeking emotional support. Not all life challenges require financial back up. Some people  just need validation, some need a shoulder to cry to, some need a listening ear, some just want to vent their pain and anger. It is sad the world we live in as almost 90% of the world population is going through one thing or another. And it is more sad that most people take advantage of your pain.

Every cold hearted individual has an untold story. Every carefree individual has insecurities, every reserved individual is hurting deep down. Life has respect for no one, sometimes it feels life doesn't check your record before hitting you. Most times we question ourselves what we are doing wrong, your good becomes a weakness your bad becomes your strength. Leaving you wondering and brainstorming for nothing. Understanding of life is beyond the thought of man, some bad are good and vice - versa, understanding which is which is what matters. Even the bible says do not be overly righteous or overly wicked, he who does them both fears the lord : Ecclesiastes 7: 16- 18 should explain better. However the ability to hold still is key because you can break anytime, it is non avoidable. 


How do you hold still? If you ask me, it is the most challenging thing to do. Keeping your mental health in check is one of them. This doesn't mean locking every access to your heart. Build walls if you have to but not too high for you to see through. However mental health doesn't revolve around sexual relationships alone. There are lots of ways your mental health can be in danger. 

The way we see ourselves is one major factor in our mental wellness. As humans we develop lots of insecurities as we grow, which in one way or another affect our public relations as well as our societal confidence. Out of 100% of our insecurities 20% is visible to the society 20% is visible to our community the remaining 60% is visible to our comrades. According to witheny Huston, self love is the greatest love of all. Once you are happy with yourself, and avoid breaking rules for people, just to make them feel better. Who ever doesn't bring happiness in your life doesn't deserve your attention. Friends, partner, spouse and parents, they don't deserve your attention. Self worth matters in your mental life, make it a supplement. Be proud of who you are no matter what, and always improve in yourself, aptitude wise, countenance and public relations. Mental stability plays an important role in your success in life as well as your expeditions to succeed. Don't compromise it for anything. I know it is difficult, especially when it is related to love and critics of our physical appearance and capabilities, don't let it drag you down the mud. Trust me, detachment is difficult when you love someone dearly, it might take years or forever, let it go and always remind yourself one thing, “ if he/she is mine he will come back for me” stay open don't build walls you can't break. If you are dealing with physical critics, work on yourself if you have to  and remain positive, because every criticism is a motivation in disguise.


Spirituality is a wide topic and takes deep minds to understand. As a believer we have been brainwashed into believing that going to church or mosque is the only path to a pure life. It is so sad because most people think purity is about condemning what you feel or what your spiritual leader condemns is bad. Your spiritual strength relies on you. Basically Your daily conducts. It is true there are blockades everywhere, it is true there are bad energies. But your ability to maintain a pure AURAL matters, because it protects you from evil.  How do we maintain a pure AURAL, by abstaining from negative thoughts, because most times our thoughts attract vibrations. Negative to Negative Positive to Positive. There is one rule about spirituality I know so well, which is, Before any one attacks you negatively, spiritually, they must always create a scenario that will change your vibration, a burst of  Anger, which might lead to fight or serious argument. This is a powerful weapon. You can look back at any terrible misfortune you or someone close to you has experienced. There must always be a scenario where there was anger displayed. You have to be guilty before you can be punished, it is a spiritual law. No witchcraft can punish you in innocence, they must make you guilty first by provoking you. 


Earlier I talked about how emotional breakdown can affect every aspect of our life. If you are not mentally weak you are bound to fall prey to a burst of anger. Critics will break you into millions of pieces, heart breaks will make you feel invincible to the world. Everything breaks you, even your breathing irritates you, nothing will make sense to you. Which is the most dangerous state of mental health. Life is though, that's the reality, don't let your experience make you a monster, be a brother’s keeper, save a life by listening no matter how hard you scream yet no one heard you, keep your shoulders open for someone to lean on no matter how many times you tried to lean yet fell, stretch a helping hand to someone without conditions, not matter how many people promised and failed you. Because we are here for all of us. Stay strong and Stay Alive.

Thanks for reading.



Moon Ruona Amreta 


 

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Luwee said…
Nice read. very engrossing.
24 September 2021 at 08:24
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