Bitter Truth of Society

 People are always judgmental about appearance, lifestyle and the personality others portrait. You have either being a victim or an assailant, one way to the other. One thing I love about freedom, is the Liberty you have to express who you are, this is an era where even a baby is free to express emotions.  It always overwhelming when we let society dictate who will should be. Most people who condemn certain activities as bad behavior are hypocrites.  what they see as good are most times way worse than what they label bad.

As a young man coming into the society can be very overwhelming as there are high expectations by family, friends and the society it self. You can't be acceptable if you can't meet up with secondary needs as your primary needs is your personal problem. Nobody cares how you pay your bills, ofcos it not my business cause have got mine to worry about. However your appearance is literally everyone consign and can get you anywhere you desire, as a matter of fact your status symbol counts on it, as people often asume how boxed up you are based on your appearance. Have heard some men say who cares how I look, I can only pity their career.

Most times you are being condemned on your hustle. Same people condemning your source of lively hood will mock you if you can't meet up with your needs, not to mention asking them for assistance. Even the bible says “ whatever you found to do under the sun, do it with all your might.” Irrespective of what you do for survival, focus and be diligent. You have no idea what all the top wealthy individuals did to reach the top. The way to the top is rough, people only come out sugar coating their success story, trust me, somethings are meant to be secret so judge no one. Life is all about figuring your path out, it never same with anyone.

Being a lady in this 21st century has become more challenging than being a man. I known you will wonder what prompt that. Let me break it down. As a young lady living alone or with parent dealing with peer pressure is always shameful to admit. “Peer Pressure can be express, as the effect on an individual who is encouraged and wants to follow their peers by changing their attitude.” Most times we mistake this for jealousy. 

As a lady, societal expectations can be literally exhausting, from your age to your body type and eventually your bank statement. Musculinity roaring like a hungry lion and extreemist calling themselves  feminist making life more difficult. What happened to those days where you don't have to own a degree and a green bank account  to get a partner you desire, what happened those days where you don't have to wear your best to chill with the high class, today appearance has become top prior of both gender.

Our child hood dreams has become nothing but day dreams, as majority of successfull individual did not hit the bull eye with their childhood imaginary proffession. Some times we put lot of energy into what we do with high hopes, boom we see others doing the Same, with in a short period they are way ahead. Aside from the anxiety that comes with it, we tend to loose it out of curiosity. Earlier in this article I mention finding your path, meaning creating your own formular. In life it does mater how you solve the equation what matters is the result, as long as it the same you good.

Don't let societal expectations weigh on you, break the rules if you have to after all rules are meant for the docile. Do want you can to survive cause at the end is your Sucess story that counts. Remember mental nutrients should come  before all else. Put God first. Cheers.

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