moonruona’s blog

  Living in a society where nothing seems to be working the way you plan can be frustrating. One can even say frustration is an understatement. Waking up in the morning with zero idea of the next step to take can be overwhelming, not to mention what to eat. Will it be right to blame    men and women, hell bent to travel abroad at all cost?. May be not.   It no longer News that an average of 50% of African in the prime of their youth travel out of their country with almost nothing in search of greener pastures, as 9 out of ten African youths aspirie to leave their country. Considering the economy in the country, Nigeria for example, is literally disturbing. Everything is basically Gold now. From feeding, to shelter, not to mention clothing, but what if I tell you that, irrespective of the bad economy of the country you can and will survive.  Today, there are tons of smugglers in disguise as traveling agent, taking advantage of the country's situation and the...

  People are always judgmental about appearance, lifestyle and the personality others portrait. You have either being a victim or an assailant, one way to the other. One thing I love about freedom, is the Liberty you have to express who you are, this is an era where even a baby is free to express emotions.     It always overwhelming when we let society dictate who will should be. Most people who condemn certain activities as bad behavior are hypocrites.     what they see as good are most times way worse than what they label bad. As a young man coming into the society can be very overwhelming as there are high expectations by family, friends and the society it self. You can't be acceptable if you can't meet up with secondary needs as your primary needs is your personal problem. Nobody cares how you pay your bills, ofcos it not my business cause have got mine to worry about. However your appearance is literally everyone consign and can get you anywhere you desire,...

..Talking about domestic violence, what do you understand about domestic violence? According to Wikipedia. Domestic violence can be express as violence or other abuse in a domestic setting, such as in marriage or cohabitation. Domestic violence is not just physical violence alone. Domestic violence is any behavior  gaining power and control over a spouse, partner, girl/boyfriend or intimate family member MAJOR CAUSES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE In most cases abusers may feel this need to control their partner because of low self-esteem, extreme jealousy, difficulties in regulating anger and other strong emotions, or in rear cases where they feel inferior to the other partner in education and socialeconomic background. Let focus on Domestic violence in marriages for now.  One can't really understand that mixed feelings a woman get when her man beat her up, for whatever reason he may have, and thoughts spinning through her head, like, " should I stay or go" most es...

Before going into details, let me enlighten you on what feminism means. There has been a lot of confusion lately about what the word "feminism" means. Though feminists repeatedly insist that their goal is gender equality, critics continue badgering them with accusations of hating men, reinforcing the gender binary, and pursuing other things "feminism" does not mean. So (short answer: It can mean a lot of things, but what it mostly comes down to is equality and being able to make the choices that are right for you). First, in case you don't know the actual definition of feminism, it is "the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men," according to Google's dictionary. I'll admit this definition leaves something to be desired; modern feminism, for example, acknowledges more than two genders, so the movement is not just about advancing women. In addition, many have critiqued the not...

I have seen tons of articles about the girl child and I believe this stands for all Laddies as well. I ask my self why does it always have to be about the Girl child. What about the Boy child, Their a lot happening to them as well. According to Preston maithya research, Boys are assumed to be tough and able to deal with their problems in their lives on their own. They are assumed to be less vulnerable to social misdeeds such as sexual harassment, child labor, violence among many others. This is wrong. Attention need to be given to them as well. Did you know?  On daily basis the Boy child, are being Molested, Raped, maltreated and Abandoned?. My Dad once told me a story about a young boy, who reside in the same neighborhood with his parent, in the city of Lagos while he was still a bachelor, back in the 90s. He was the first son of a family of three, where both mum and dad are as busy has the clock. This boy is know to be a active, intelligent and loyal. Due to his loyal...

I hate what i see all over the social media lately about Laddies and Men who desire to enhance their complexion. There is practically nothing wrong with desiring to enhance your complexion, if you ask me. It is a decision anyone, at any point of time in their life can make, it has nothing to do with low self-esteem. If am permitted, what do your understanding of Fashion? Like your own definition of fashion. Well to my understanding, Fashion is being confident of your look, and what you wear. It doesn't matter, what anyone thinks or say about it. As long as it not against the norm of the society, you are good to go. Let stop condemning people, body shaming is wrong, it can destabilize people mental health. Multiple studies have shown the negative impact of the media on body image. Exposure to photoshopped images of unrealistic body ideals amd bodyshaming has been linked to low self-esteem, depression, and eating disorders. According to the National Association of Anorexi...

, Nigerian celebrities don't worth the Attention we give to them as individuals. They are selfish and  self centered that they only think of them selves and their family. I believe we all know that, most of this celebrities we can do anything to defend, started from scrash. They all know what the life outside their comfort zone, looks like. All they do is intimidate us with what they have ,forgetting that we pushed them to where ever position they are, as fans.  The Question is, what are they giving us in return?. Hmm we all know that it ain't easy, but save me all that, who said life is easy. You struggle for what you want, and don't forget that when you get that which you aim at, there are people who need you. Because someone actually pull you to where ever you are. Instead of intimidating, why not stretch a helping hand.          All they do is come on Instagram, post their fake life, photo shop skin,  and so on. Initiat...