moonruona’s blog

  Sometimes I wonder why everything in life is governed by time. It makes me cringe knowing that I have to dig, plant, water and most importantly wait to see the outcome. Why can’t we just imagine things and have them magically bring themselves to life? At some point, most people have had this thought. We want ease. We want shortcuts. I think life  is  easy but not in the literal sense. Your definition of EASY strongly determines your approach to life. Take it or leave it. Life is the most structured phenomenon there is. Everything comes in sequence. The moment you miss a single step in the process, you either get stuck or return to square one. That can be frustrating. But until you get it right, you keep repeating the same mistakes, and it becomes a loop. Many people are too carried away or too distracted to become conscious of this pattern, so they mistake repetition for fate instead of feedback. Elevating your status in life isn’t just about money. Yes, money is essent...

  There are moments and events we can’t explain phenomena beyond the capacity of the human mind. There are patterns that feel planned, yet we don’t understand by whom. This is especially true for people who cannot explain the reason behind the repeated cycles they experience cycles that existed long before they were born. In some families, attaining a certain height in life feels impossible, no matter how hard they try. It often feels as though an unseen force is deliberately holding them back. Intellectually, science claims not to believe in the unseen, yet there is no tangible explanation for how we can speak to someone miles away and communicate seamlessly without interruption. All we know is frequency. Believe it or not, the world is ruled by forces. This is why theories exist explaining how the earth remains round while our feet stay firmly planted on it, suspended in this infinite space called the universe. We call it gravity. An unseen force yet without it, I wonder what hum...

  The confusion that comes with uncertainty is beyond comprehension. Think back for a moment how different would your life have been if you had simply accepted the fate before you? Maybe in your job, your relationships, your career choices, or even your marriage. Breaking free from a cycle you don’t even remember entering is one of the hardest puzzles to solve. You just want to get it right for once. I’ve read many books, and one of my favorites is  Attitude Is Everything  by Keith Harrell. It made me question whether my attitude was one of the forces holding me back. I however convinced myself it was and started working on how I approach and speak to people, which honestly helped in certain areas of my life. But let’s be honest I wanted more. I wanted to break free from financial and emotional struggles. And from what I’ve learned about people of wealth and influence, many of them appear saucy, arrogant, or even mean at least from my sentimental point of view. Questionin...

The greatest moment in life is not when we’re winning, it's those moments when we strive to achieve our goals. Hey is why The days we struggle to achieve are often the most underrated chapters of our lives, yet they deserve the highest appreciation. These moments don’t just change our circumstances they shift our mindset, refine our perspective, and shape the way we approach life. They are the quiet seasons that condition us to discover who we truly are. Because if you don’t know and understand yourself, you’ll keep running in circles, never arriving at a meaningful destination. Behind every milestone we reach lies a refinement process often called the waiting season. This period tests patience, molds character, and uncovers layers of our identity. However, how long that season lasts often depends on how deeply you are willing to understand yourself within it. Some people arrive at that self-discovery quickly, while others must walk through challenges, endure pain, and sometimes su...

  Emotions are the most difficult part of self-expression. You are often caught in between, wondering whether you are overreacting, being entitled, demanding, selfish, or even foolish. In my opinion, maturity is the ability to process our actions and decisions before we make them. Whether they might negatively affect someone or not, as long as they bring balance, that should be all that matters. As we grow older, managing our emotions without being overwhelmed becomes easier. It’s fascinating to realize that emotional intelligence is the most crucial part of life, as it guarantees your ability to succeed. Understanding when to be expressive and when to hold back should be seen as a great skill, because it takes self-discipline to achieve. Unfortunately, society often recognizes only material accomplishments. However, I believe the greatest achievements are the battles we fight within ourselves and win—the bad habits we struggle to overcome, the inner demons we work to tame, self-ca...

  Understanding can sometimes be demanding, both emotionally and mentally. Expecting to be understood is one of the most unrealistic demands you can place on someone. In fact, we often struggle to understand ourselves, let alone someone whose personality and life perspective are completely different from our own. You don’t need to fully understand someone to coexist or relate with them. The most important aspect of friendship—or any relationship—is connection: finding value in their presence and personality. Going through life can be draining, and doing it alone is exhausting. However, the universe never ceases to bring certain types of people into our lives, both good and bad. Sometimes, you meet people with genuine intentions, yet you find yourself filled with doubt, hoping to understand them and vice versa. Life has a way of gifting—or perhaps rewarding—you with imperfections. How do you explain praying for light, only to find that, when it’s time to sleep, you can’t turn it o...

  Nothing hits you as hard as finding yourself in a desperate situation with insufficient funds to solve it. It's incredibly sad to have the immediate solution to your confusion within grasp, yet it feels impossible to reach. I find life fascinating and complex to write about. It can be as challenging as walking on broken glass in one moment and as easy as threading a needle in the next. While it may seem comforting to believe that the difficult learning process is necessary for growth, have you ever considered that life could be made a little easier? If you ask me how, I honestly don't know because I'm still figuring it out. Sounds exhausting? Yes, it certainly is.  Elders often give advice about putting in effort and being consistent, even saying that material things don't matter in the end. But how can material things not matter? It's the 20th century, of course they matter. Pursuing material things is natural, but making them your top life priority becomes unhea...