Bleeding Time

 





Nothing hits you as hard as finding yourself in a desperate situation with insufficient funds to solve it. It's incredibly sad to have the immediate solution to your confusion within grasp, yet it feels impossible to reach. I find life fascinating and complex to write about. It can be as challenging as walking on broken glass in one moment and as easy as threading a needle in the next. While it may seem comforting to believe that the difficult learning process is necessary for growth, have you ever considered that life could be made a little easier? If you ask me how, I honestly don't know because I'm still figuring it out. Sounds exhausting? Yes, it certainly is. 
Elders often give advice about putting in effort and being consistent, even saying that material things don't matter in the end. But how can material things not matter? It's the 20th century, of course they matter. Pursuing material things is natural, but making them your top life priority becomes unhealthy. Access to not just needs, but wants and desires, brings a fulfilling life. Finding balance in life is incredibly difficult, with a success rate of only 0.011%. The likelihood of achieving this is 0.011%. 

While it may seem almost impossible, if you want to beat the odds, be my guest. By balance, I mean leading a fulfilled life before your lifespan is exhausted. It's okay to have big dreams and make plans, but preparing for probability is just as important as being positive. You can't be fully equipped for life's challenges, but you can be prepared. Open-mindedness is the best way to prepare. It's normal to feel exhausted. Whatever your definition of perfection is, it will always have an element of imperfection within it." just keep taking those baby steps of yours with a leap of faith. 

I want to highlight the importance of understanding contentment and satisfaction. Being content doesn't necessarily mean being satisfied. Contentment involves feeling grateful for what you have while still striving for more and greater accomplishments. This mindset is key to living a more fulfilling life. On the other hand, satisfaction brings relaxation. Many people don't grow because they find comfort in a less comfortable situation, thinking that they are grateful which I find very sentimental. This prompts the question: which type of person are you?

"Time will fly, but if you don't hold on, it will leave you behind. Changes will continue, but if you evolve with them, you won't be left behind or confused. There is always an impossibility before a possibility, behind every unwavering belief there are doubts. The only assurance we have is death; everything else is a matter of probability. You have to try to see perfection in your imperfection."

If this is for you: The beginning is as lonely as the end. It shouldn't matter who is currently cheering you up; what matters is those you don't know, or might never know, who will eventually cheer with you.

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