moonruona’s blog

Adulthood sometimes leaves you clueless about life. It can be overwhelming, especially when you have got to choose between good or bad. Your definitions of good and bad definitely have a huge influence on certain decisions you make. It's  important to be deliberate and realistic about your perception of life. It is easy to conclude on a certain philosophy that suits your current view of life but it will be a waste if it has no positive impact on your life. Sometimes the societal school of thought about negativity is overrated. If you live by rules and order of things you might die unhappy. It is important to explore, but explore with boundaries. Risks are part of life but do it with caution. Life sucks especially when things don't go the way you want them to go, it might make you feel completely useless, society calls it peer pressure, I call it self pressure. It's a pure response to a certain kind of anxiety. It is fine to feel worthless, sometimes life will pu...

In this article I will share with you the perfect way to recognize the perfect spouse for you. There are different types of people in the world, and it is very important to put this into consideration before you start a serious relationship. Dating someone who shares a similar goal with you is the best emotional investment you can ever ask for. You need to understand that mechanism of relationship before committing to one, if you seek Success and a lifetime intimacy. There're some  people in life with simple goals, like owning a house, a stable income, and no social status. As long as they're feeding and clothing with no landlord palava, they are at the peak of life. While there are people who are just about popularity and recognition with zero intention to make an impact in society. Some people are more about power and position, their major aspirations in life is to be in control, like a Godfather. However there are few people in the world that aspire to make a dif...

So many mistakes ladies make today are caused by their inordinate desire and some confused women indoctrinating the society from their shallow and selfish perspective of life. I'm a lady and as a matter of fact, I'm a feminist. As at the time of this article I am not married. I was involved in a conversation that involves a particular lady that is yet to be married and is in her 50s. The man I got into this chat with was a secret admirer of the said lady, who eventually made his affection known to her. According to him, they were colleagues working in the same company, she was a receptionist as at that time, he was of age and ready to settle for marriage, which he founds her  suitable for a wife material. After so many days of chasing and persistency, unfortunately she turned him down with an excuse that she can't date a man in her working environment. According to him, when a man sees a woman he likes No is always not an answer, so he kept showering her with tons of gifts ...

What is life without hate? What is life without a storm? What is life without fear? Every single day I wake up, to a new day, with a completely different countenance and hope. I prepare my mind for the worst, I sometimes imagine bad scenarios and what I will do to overcome them. What is life without love? What is life without a companion? Sometimes I sit to imagine having the best partner the universe can send to me, sometimes I daydream romantic scenarios. I reminisce a lot on my past, but that's not enough validation for my present ideology. I sometimes imagine being heartbroken over and over again, even though sometimes I feel my heart belongs somewhere it shouldn't be. The future is too bright to see through, curiosity of the mind is literally exhausting. The past can be reflected upon and the present can be seen with zero effort. You can never be prepared enough for the universe. The past is a lesson that prepares you for the future examination. Sometimes I ask...