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Is Feminism African? Question we need answer to.

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Before going into details, let me enlighten you on what feminism means. There has been a lot of confusion lately about what the word "feminism" means. Though feminists repeatedly insist that their goal is gender equality, critics continue badgering them with accusations of hating men, reinforcing the gender binary, and pursuing other things "feminism" does not mean. So (short answer: It can mean a lot of things, but what it mostly comes down to is equality and being able to make the choices that are right for you). First, in case you don't know the actual definition of feminism, it is "the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men," according to Google's dictionary. I'll admit this definition leaves something to be desired; modern feminism, for example, acknowledges more than two genders, so the movement is not just about advancing women. In addition, many have critiqued the not...

Definition of a Man

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I have seen tons of articles about the girl child and I believe this stands for all Laddies as well. I ask my self why does it always have to be about the Girl child. What about the Boy child, Their a lot happening to them as well. According to Preston maithya research, Boys are assumed to be tough and able to deal with their problems in their lives on their own. They are assumed to be less vulnerable to social misdeeds such as sexual harassment, child labor, violence among many others. This is wrong. Attention need to be given to them as well. Did you know?  On daily basis the Boy child, are being Molested, Raped, maltreated and Abandoned?. My Dad once told me a story about a young boy, who reside in the same neighborhood with his parent, in the city of Lagos while he was still a bachelor, back in the 90s. He was the first son of a family of three, where both mum and dad are as busy has the clock. This boy is know to be a active, intelligent and loyal. Due to his loyal...

Bleaching is not a taboo. Read to find out why.

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I hate what i see all over the social media lately about Laddies and Men who desire to enhance their complexion. There is practically nothing wrong with desiring to enhance your complexion, if you ask me. It is a decision anyone, at any point of time in their life can make, it has nothing to do with low self-esteem. If am permitted, what do your understanding of Fashion? Like your own definition of fashion. Well to my understanding, Fashion is being confident of your look, and what you wear. It doesn't matter, what anyone thinks or say about it. As long as it not against the norm of the society, you are good to go. Let stop condemning people, body shaming is wrong, it can destabilize people mental health. Multiple studies have shown the negative impact of the media on body image. Exposure to photoshopped images of unrealistic body ideals amd bodyshaming has been linked to low self-esteem, depression, and eating disorders. According to the National Association of Anorexi...

Nigerian celebrities don't worth the Attention

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, Nigerian celebrities don't worth the Attention we give to them as individuals. They are selfish and  self centered that they only think of them selves and their family. I believe we all know that, most of this celebrities we can do anything to defend, started from scrash. They all know what the life outside their comfort zone, looks like. All they do is intimidate us with what they have ,forgetting that we pushed them to where ever position they are, as fans.  The Question is, what are they giving us in return?. Hmm we all know that it ain't easy, but save me all that, who said life is easy. You struggle for what you want, and don't forget that when you get that which you aim at, there are people who need you. Because someone actually pull you to where ever you are. Instead of intimidating, why not stretch a helping hand.          All they do is come on Instagram, post their fake life, photo shop skin,  and so on. Initiat...

Why douching is dangerous ........douching is when a lady try to rinse inside her virginal with water

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We all like to feel nice and clean after a shower, but it turns out some of us are trying to be a little too clean. A whopping 25% of women are reported to use douching – a method of intimate cleansing which involves flushing water up into the vagina – in order to cleanse themselves. But new research has show than this extra level of hygiene could actually be detrimental to your health. According to a study by the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences, douching doubles your risk of ovarian cancer. Scientists believe that this is because the water used to rinse your vagina actually pushes harmful bacteria up towards your fallopian tubes and ovaries. This is good reason to stop douching IMMEDIATELY – ovarian cancer is frequently referred to as a ‘silent killer’ since sufferers often do not experience any symptoms until the disease is in its later stages. Although this is the first time douching has been associated with ovarian ca...