Take Your Life






It’s one thing to get motivated, it's another to remain motivated. Some mornings are just different, you just don't have the emotional strength to get out of bed. Society sometimes is the best source of strength and most times, they are the virus you want to run miles away from. Sometimes my room can be a total wreck, disorganised and revolting, and I will find myself sitting like the queen of the coast, with less concern. After my daily activities, I literally jump on my bed and sleep like a baby. On rare occasions this can last a maximum of 3 days.

From my hygiene routine I want to believe it is safe to conclude that the state of your personal space gives a hint on your ongoing mental and emotional situation.( Lol) but when you have people doing that for you, it becomes easy to conceal. .


Some days just often decide to go south, leaving you wondering where you went wrong. Ever feel overwhelmed about everything, it just feels like you can't. You literally feel less motivated. I want to believe we have all been there at some point in our lives. Nothing is as difficult as admitting to your mental state. Society in my opinion is hypocritical. Same people encouraging you to step out of your cacoon are the same people that will potentially stigmatise you on your insecurity. Sometimes it's almost like no one understands you.


Nothing hits as hard as sitting on a soft sofa and still feel so less comfortable like you have a crying baby with no breast milk. It is intensively overwhelming. Self pressure  is a (bitch)to be honest, I have been there, and was never able to admit to anyone not even myself. Patience is one of the most underrated motivational words, it's simple yet annoying at the same time.

Why do I have to wait? Everyone is literally ahead of me, it's almost like I am the unfortunate one, never lucky in anything except motor accidents and good health. It takes time for me to understand  that gratitude is the key to more grace. Life comes and throws lemons at you and you be like what the heck am i gonna do with this crap. Maybe you need to do more of  showing gratitude than complaining, maybe you need to sit still and see how far you have come. Maybe you need to take a deep breath to realise you need to look beyond what your peers have achieved and be happy for them instead of feeling pressured by them. Just maybe.


Growing up got you like, (I can't wait to be an adult already, and then adulthood hits you hard, all your youthful exorbitant goes down the drain leaving you feeling like you are in a desert. No food, no water). Lol , sometimes I just can't deal. Aside from dealing with what the eyes can see, bro, you still have to deal with the unseen.( I need 12 packs of tissue paper right now, and maybe a pain killer afterward, because I just want to cry out my veins.) Emotions are like the hardest part of adulthood. 


I want to believe we all had episodes where we just gave up on everything. How many times have you given up? I have given up several times, to be honest. One day i decided i want to be an alcoholic, so i can constantly get high that i will never have to worry about anything, then i realised i still have work to earn enough so i can afford it. How complicated is that? It's practically okay not to have it all put together, it's natural to feel pressured.  Patience should be the most expensive thing in the world because it is the answer to every problem.

Without patience, you can't be relentless, you can practice, you can't attain perfection, you can't win, it goes on and on.


Take your life and fill it with love and beautiful memories, life is so sweet that you will never want to get wrinkles. You just need to be grateful and patient to see what the universe can do.


This is dedicated to you.

I love you


Written by

Moonlight Ruona Amreta


Comments

Jude Chuks said…
You always write as if you're talking directly to me. I appreciate you good work
And I want to say patience and time is the best gift. Thank you once again for motivating us with this wonderful article
I wish you more Grace to keep telling the society the bitter truth about life.
15 January 2024 at 20:59
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