Bizarre Relationship Facts

 



Sexual Relationship comes in different forms and perspectives, including individual views of the word. Sexual relationship is a form of relationship where two opposite sex or same sex have a passionate attachment 

Let's discuss attachment with the opposite sex. Before any form of fuse takes place between two people, there is always a spark. What I actually mean is related to interest, like feeling of wanting to know them more, comfortable with having conversations with them, having a sexual fantasy about them e.t.c. This is an undeniable fact that you like someone.


Most common sexual relationship purposes are flings. But if that spark doesn't exist, no matter how beautiful or handsome they are, you just don't find yourself giving in.

One amazing fact about spark is that it always has to do with soul compatibility. There are some people you just can't make friends or have a relationship with, not because they are bad or ugly, it is just that your soul is not compatible with theirs, it is beyond human understanding, even though you want to fake it for personal gain it just doesn't seem to make sense. Before you truly start loving or liking someone, the vibration has been somehow passed to them, sometimes we wonder why we love someone and they are not reciprocating. They feel the energy you are sending but most times they are rejecting it. Anyone you love definitely has a spark of love for you, sometimes not as big as yours. “Scenarios like walking up to a guy or a lady and you all just click and the conversation just feels like a planned one, or the feeling of having to Meet them before '. but in rare cases they feel the Same way you do. However mostimes they run because they don't even love themselves as much as you do. Having someone who loves you more than you love yourself can be extremely overwhelming as you feel in your subconscious you don't deserve that much, or you consciously feel there is an ulterior motive.


Every relationship is magical, be it a fling, friendship or even marriage. Why? You ask.. Smile..

Relationships are planned by the universe. Have you ever tried to connect with someone and in one way or the other they pulled back or you pulled back or rather circumstances did the job?. Sometimes you feel awful about it, especially when it has got to do with romance, Cuddling up and having dinner. But when they say Mother Nature knows, it is not just a joke.

We mostimes finding ourselves loving someone we know deep down doesn't deserve us, but you still want to keep trying. That's because you don't even deserve you. You don't value or respect yourself. Respect is reciprocal is not only between two people. It is applicable to yourself, if you don't value you and at the same time respect you, NO ONE WILL. The sweet  truth is societal respect comes from what they see or perceive about you, not just who you are or what you have accomplished. So how do you expect to be valued if you don't value yourself. Every time you have been made to feel you are nobody was because you never see yourself has one, every time you have chased someone so bad  was  because you never felt worth a chase.  Don't get me wrong, it is practically fine to chase, as a lady or a Man, as Naturally every lady loves being chased as it validates your affection for them. All the names you have been called are actually who you truly are. Name like stupid, bastard, idiot, stalker e.t.c if you truly ain't any of these you will not chase someone who doesn't give a Sh*t about you. Welcome to reality. This kind of relationship is more magical, because it helps find who you truly are, it opens your eyes to see how special you truly are. At this moment your self-love, self-worth grows without any form of artificiality.


Getting attached with someone just to have a fling, is mostimes seen as Irresponsible. Well if you ask me, it is not as irresponsible as making promises you can't fulfill. Finding the right  partner is one thing, Being mentally ready to bring someone into your space is another. Relationships are a responsibility. Having to call to check up on someone, making  them happy in their down times,and  financially  and emotionally supporting them is something anyone should be ready for. Irrespective of the current societal view of relationships, it is what it is. If you claim to be in a relationship and you ain't getting or doing any of the above, it's high time you redefine your relationship. 

However Having a fling with the right person is very important, even if flings are just short term relationships only meant for romantic pleasure, irrespective of that, be selective, with whomever you choose to embark on such adventure with.

As a lady it is very important, because any man that flirts with an uncountable number of women always carries bad energy, like it or not, imagine it from a network marketing perspective. Vice - versa, however, aside from the spiritual consciousness of flings, always protect yourself health wise, not all sexually transmitted diseases can be prevented with condoms. This also applies to normal relationships.


Thanks for reading 

Written by Moon Ruona Amreta 



Comments

Anonymous said…
I can’t say I disagree, but somehow I feel like this is coming from a place of experience and maybe a little research. Nice body of work though! Good writing skill all round... I hope the people that needs to learn from this will read. I give you a 7/10. Lol
25 October 2021 at 06:09
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